Hey Everyone,

Happy Friday, I hope you are doing well. Now that we are over halfway through February, we have had the entrance into 2020 and Valentine’s Day. How is everyone feeling? All loved up and still working on their new year’s resolutions… Maybe only the ones that were realistic. A lot of people have put a lot of emphasis on this year being the biggest year for personal growth and opportunities and I keep hearing people say that they are still tired from last year and they are waiting for the big bang moment to happen and make this year great!

As I had said in a previous post that I was happy, excited but also very nervous about this year, as I personally felt that there was going to a lot of new beginnings, and we all know that with a new beginning comes an ending to something as we know it. I have felt a lot of high and lows lately from work, wedding planning and friends and family that I feel like my brain hasn’t been able to keep up with my body and now I am feeling the consequences from bottling everything up as my body has finally said ENOUGH!

Coming into this year I had lost my words for my weekly blog, but I had found my words for something else and started working on writing my new novel. I felt sad about not writing and publishing my weekly blog as it has always made me feel bright and happy, but how could I write motivational words for others, when I didn’t feel it myself. So, I didn’t! Something I had been doing religiously every week, I had just stopped.

I have been excited about writing my next novel but sometimes loss hope with my first one I wrote as I want so much for people out there to be reading it, and after working so hard for such a long time and trying desperately to get it out there, I felt as if I had lost hope. And you know what? That’s okay! It’s okay to get down, it’s okay to feel impatient at times, because we are human after all, and it is only natural to want it now.

It doesn’t mean we are going to get it, but it is 100% okay to get down, whether you are progressing in your career, waiting to meet the one, or trying to fall pregnant. No matter what you are trying to achieve, we all feel this at times and it is natural and normal to fall off the wagon, but it’s about learning, growing, getting mentally stronger and getting up and that matters, it’s trying harder than you ever did before, and most importantly not stressing about when! The stress we put on our ourselves with timelines is what really bogs us down. It restricts us, because we believe we should already have it. Trust it will happen, and just work one day at a time and make sure that whatever choices you make today and, in the future, you do then for yourself, not because of guilt, fear and for the happiness of others. Do it because it is important to you and always trust yourself. It will all be okay, and it will work out how it is supposed to, even if we can’t see that right now.

I hope you all have a wonderful rest of your week, be true and kind to one another and please remember… Every day is a new day to try, you can quit your day job, just don’t ever give up on yourself or your dream.

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